Funeral Ceremonies
If you are on this page it is likely that you have suffered a loss. I’m sorry we have met in these circumstances.
Take your time, read the information and request more details when you are ready… And breathe.
A funeral ceremony is a little light on a dark day, where it is more than a goodbye. It is the story of your loved ones life, where we create a tale of their loves, memories, relationships and you can incorporate any elements, cultures, traditions, beliefs and readings that represent who they were, what they stood for and how they wanted to be remembered. The last thing you can do for them is make the day part of their legacy.
Practically speaking, a funeral ceremony is a very important part of the grieving process for those who have to go on without their loved ones in their life. At this time, it is ideal to work with people with experience who can help to guide you.
One of your first thoughts may be, I need to find a Funeral Celebrant near me… Ask around, many of your contacts may have used someone they recommend. Of course as a Civil Funeral Celebrant I am more than happy to have a no obligation chat about how, with a Diploma in Grief and Bereavement, I can gently help support you during this difficult time as we gather together information of the life lived, ensuring we identify stories that are important to share.
As a non-religious Celebrant, and with your help, I create a wonderfully customised ceremony that will reflect the departed in the manner you wish it to, a tribute fitting to them and one that will support the grieving family and friends, however quirky that may be!
You may want a traditional ceremony, a simple cremation, a natural burial, a celebration of life, a style of ceremony all of your own. You have the choice to have the ceremony you want.
I am here to assist you to create what you want and between myself and your Funeral Directors (if you have one) we will be able to create a fitting send off for your loved one.
“The eulogy may move us to tears, but it also has the power to heal. It can help us get things in perspective. We start to understand that we can cope best with bereavement not by pushing away what has been taken from us, but by bringing the memories closer and finding ways of moving on with those memories still within us.”
Andrew Morton – Poet Laureate UK
Why a funeral celebrant? We tell the story of your loved one, and if you would like to write your own readings you are of course welcome. We spend time chatting with you to paint the perfect picture and we help you choose readings and think about which key family and friends could be involved in the ceremony too. I’ve a host of suggested readings to suit all vibes of funerals, or you are welcome to write your own.
I love to include any symbolism that is important to you, which may stem from spiritual beliefs or something deeply relative to the deceased. I am there to guide you through the ceremony, as well as being on hand throughout your planning journey.
The main thing to remember is this day is all about your loved one and what you feel they want.
What is offered for Funeral Ceremonies?
- Initial introduction call / email to arrange a detailed ceremony planning meeting (medium of your choice, though I do suggest in person). Please take your time, there is no rush, I understand these calls and meetings will be hard for you
- Support with ideas and proofreading of eulogy, poetry and readings
- Creation of a customised personal ceremony script, with your input. I often suggest that you may want to include other family members in our conversations to create a full picture of your loved one
- Unlimited edits of your service
- Ongoing open communication including finalisation of ceremony logistics (this can include all parties involved)
- Liaison with your Funeral Director and Crematorium or Burial Ground
- Ceremony professionally performed on the day
- Printed copy of the ceremony including readings post ceremony
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Please remember to Register the death within 5 days (8 days in Scotland) – this includes weekends and bank holidays.
